Been there, done that, got the t-shirt!

When I’m not supporting the CEO of the MIB I’m supporting countless individuals to create strong, healthy and robust relationships and create their Blockbuster Life through my coaching, my books, and my speaking.

I’ve created my own Blockbuster Life (living life on my terms), but I’m often questioned about my own relationship status.

I’m not married. Been there, Done that, wore the t-shirt until it fell apart. I’ve dated. Boy have I dated. And in dating I’ve explored the human psyche in ways most people don’t even consider. It’s led me down some very dark pathways,all stories for another day, and not suitable for LinkedIn, but it’s what motivated to study for my psychology degree with the Open University.

It’s all taught me that strong relationships wobble, they come close to breaking, but the manage to find ways to regroup and rebuild.

I don’t need a marriage band or certificate to ensure I do everything I can to make my relationship work, before we consider going separate ways.

Instead I need the knowing that comes with trust, safety, security and love to know that regardless what we’re going through, ultimately we have each other’s backs.

Instead of a wedding band I wear an eternity ring alongside my late grandmother’s engagement ring. One a symbol of intention and longevity, the other proof of longevity, against circumstances that most of us will hopefully never have to experience (my grandparents married on the day WWII was declared in Europe), and were together 2 days short of 70 years (when my grandfather (Pappa) died).

It’s also taught me that as long as we’re pursuing or living our Blockbuster Life, we can overcome anything that comes our way.

Message me to find out how you can create your own Blockbuster Life.